I am asking are we friends? Are we close to each other, do you know everything about me? Or do you care to know? are we really together, didn’t you force me to tell lies?, are you really honest with me? are you really beside me? Do you prefer to stay with me when I’m sick or you like to go for fun with – group? are you sure you loved me? Or even you tell me everything truly? do you hear do u think you are respectable in all your actions , why do u do so ? Why you forced me asking all that? Aren’t you strong enough to take a step forward? Are you satisfied? Is our friendship is a real one? Do u care to know my – or you don’t care? So answer me or even answer yourself inside yours. And tell me what the real friendship is? Is it a name given to a certain relationship between youth of same sex? Or it’s just a companion shop for a while? Or saying hello every morning to a certain group, I wonder what is it exactly? Nowadays friendship really takes several definitions, so I gonna define it correctly or give up being a friend forever. Now, let’s ask why are we close to each other? Well, I found in my whole life till now types of friends, true friend, masky friend, target friend and incorporate one. But you have to detect the true one to have a real friendship, it’s not easy, its too hard, but I have to search and keep searching till finding him. And if you couldn’t, so it’s better to be alone for a while than being in a fake relationship.
“better an open enemy than a false friend” as you aren’t in need to a living creature saying hello at morning & goodbye at night watching you as a shadow of a friend, but you need a real one beside you “a friend is one of the nicest thing you can have & one of the best things you can be” Douglas Pagels
man doesn’t know what other’s inside contains, cause evil can be introduced on a smiley face and you may gain vices at least as you know “Evil communications corrupt manners.”
and you may find yourself infront of a big closed door when you cant have the power to open it or even the treat what you are involved in, so to avoid being in a trap facing masky faces all the time, just be realistic when you choose a friend before sorrow follows you, when you will hear that loudly “its too late to shut the stable-door when the horse is stolen”
Shahenda Assem
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
the self esteem syndrome
Actually self esteem, feel your value, confidence, self awareness are all of the same meaning. It’s all about to profound meaning that you need to gain it to be able to treasure your life and if you don’t reach it ? you will never be respectable forever.
I think we all have to realize the meaning of “self-esteem”. Ok, I will try now to introduce it in the answers of the following questions. Firstly: answer me honestly. Have you ever thought about yourself profoundly? Or in another way, have you ever thought about yourself in a three-dimensional manner? Ok now let’s explain that. If you make analysis to that meaning, you will find our life, each indicates to a certain aspect. As when you look at the other mirror so you had a look of you face and hair style and that aspect I gurss we all do daily but I also guess that not all of us think about the other 2 dimensions, which are your need and duties, so now could you answer me frankly, have you ever thought about yourself in a three dimensional way? Well I am not going to check you answer you can just keep it to yourself but I am going to show you after the answer who you are accurately and which category of people do you belong to? Now I am asking do people love you ? and do you temper them with your coming ? or they cheer up on looking to your face ?
ok if you wana know the answer, so you have to realize carefully that people can be divided into 3 categories and we are going to analyze all the of them. Firstly I am going to talk about the first category of people they are those people who look for just one thing at the mirror “their looks well that kind of people will not gain anything in their life except a silly comment from a trivial girl saying “what a cute guy? “ and they may loose even that comment after the frequent meeting with same people actually that kind of people have no concepts in life and thet may not be able to even survive in a quick wheel of life and suddenly they will face their hell destiny when no one will feel sorry for them --– their never noticed their duties and ignored what they really needed to build themselves. Man should respect people and respect and trust.
The second category of people is those who looks to their look and needs as well. That category is better than the previous, but they also will never preserve their position, actually that kind of people just look to you as a bank or company thinking of how far could you benefit them? And according to the answer, so you value in their hearts will rise, but unfortunately that kind of masky people are so easty to detect & easier to reveal masks of their faces.
The moment when they will lose everything they gained by rude ways. As well as they will lose their position. You will also gain trputation as well and how lets treasure that old wisdom saying “do what you would be done”.
The third and the final category are those people who look for every accurate detail of life. Look, needs & duties, those people are successfully good managed people. Who you have to put a drawn on their heads & when you see them, you will appreciate their accurate managed system, because they are terribly equationed & balanced. nd “as you will saw, so you will reap”.
Now did you finally detect which category are you and think after detection you will find what you have really to do.
Shahenda Assem
I think we all have to realize the meaning of “self-esteem”. Ok, I will try now to introduce it in the answers of the following questions. Firstly: answer me honestly. Have you ever thought about yourself profoundly? Or in another way, have you ever thought about yourself in a three-dimensional manner? Ok now let’s explain that. If you make analysis to that meaning, you will find our life, each indicates to a certain aspect. As when you look at the other mirror so you had a look of you face and hair style and that aspect I gurss we all do daily but I also guess that not all of us think about the other 2 dimensions, which are your need and duties, so now could you answer me frankly, have you ever thought about yourself in a three dimensional way? Well I am not going to check you answer you can just keep it to yourself but I am going to show you after the answer who you are accurately and which category of people do you belong to? Now I am asking do people love you ? and do you temper them with your coming ? or they cheer up on looking to your face ?
ok if you wana know the answer, so you have to realize carefully that people can be divided into 3 categories and we are going to analyze all the of them. Firstly I am going to talk about the first category of people they are those people who look for just one thing at the mirror “their looks well that kind of people will not gain anything in their life except a silly comment from a trivial girl saying “what a cute guy? “ and they may loose even that comment after the frequent meeting with same people actually that kind of people have no concepts in life and thet may not be able to even survive in a quick wheel of life and suddenly they will face their hell destiny when no one will feel sorry for them --– their never noticed their duties and ignored what they really needed to build themselves. Man should respect people and respect and trust.
The second category of people is those who looks to their look and needs as well. That category is better than the previous, but they also will never preserve their position, actually that kind of people just look to you as a bank or company thinking of how far could you benefit them? And according to the answer, so you value in their hearts will rise, but unfortunately that kind of masky people are so easty to detect & easier to reveal masks of their faces.
The moment when they will lose everything they gained by rude ways. As well as they will lose their position. You will also gain trputation as well and how lets treasure that old wisdom saying “do what you would be done”.
The third and the final category are those people who look for every accurate detail of life. Look, needs & duties, those people are successfully good managed people. Who you have to put a drawn on their heads & when you see them, you will appreciate their accurate managed system, because they are terribly equationed & balanced. nd “as you will saw, so you will reap”.
Now did you finally detect which category are you and think after detection you will find what you have really to do.
Shahenda Assem
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